Reba, Bonnie Brett |
Name: Bonnie Glymph
Address: Greer, S.C.
Blood Type: Chair O Key
Bonnie's Ma'ma Reba, my mother-in-law, taught the importance of
family blood type through stories of her grandmother's people, and she was
proud to be a Cherokee.
Geneva, center |
As a child, I was proud of my Cherokee blood type, too, and
enjoyed people asking if I had "Indian Blood." Trips to Asheville
allowed me to see my dad's cousins with dark skin, hair, eyes, and high cheek
bones. Without the aid of a computer, my
aunt Gladys traced our Cherokee blood line. Since Native Americans seldom kept
written records, she interviewed relatives and was told by a great aunt that
her great great grandmother, Lucy Kate, lived near a Cherokee reservation and "was
never married, she just took up with some Indian, but you shouldn't go around
telling things like that about the family." This "took
up" resulted in a half Cherokee daughter, Kate Black. Kate's granddaughter, Geneva White, married a
Brown and had a son, Troy, who married a Scottish girl, Sue Grant.
Troy, Jim, Sue |
My uncle Jim Brown's description of his parents, my
grandparents:
My mother was a fiery, red
headed 5' 2'' whirlwind from the Scott Highland Clan Grant. My father was
a 6' 4'' tall, dark and handsome man with 1/4 Cherokee Native American blood
flowing in his veins. She was from Bat Cave, NC. He was from a small rural
township just North of Asheville, N.C. Woodfin, on the French Broad River.
They made a striking pair. Her with fair skin, blue eyes, and fire red
hair. He with thick locks of black hair, deep brown eyes and a dark (not red)
complexion that is so prevalent among the Cherokee. Add to that the 1 foot
difference in height and 130 pound difference in weight, they couldn't help but
draw attention to themselves. As to temperament, that shock of flaming red hair
was a warning to not dismiss her diminutive size while father's towering
stature disguised a deep, slow to anger, soul behind dark pools of steadiness
that were his eyes. I will say this for posterity sake. My father never raised
a hand towards my mother or towards me, but I cannot say the same as to my
mother as she was a terror when angered. I learned early from him to give her
wide berth when you crossed "her" line and she had counted to 3.
Troy and Sue |
I can recall many an
occasion as a child, when we would travel to Gatlinburg, TN to camp at Elkmont
National Park and the obligatory stop in Cherokee to let Daddy walk around
among "his people" as he would call them. And invariably, one of the
locals would ask him if he was "of the Cherokee Nation" which would
make him puff up with pride and declare in his low resonant voice with a simple
"Yes."
Our looks are passed down from generation to generation by blood. Physically,
my dad and I looked like our Cherokee people, while my sister inherited red hair
from Sue Grant Brown and my mom's Scotch/Irish people. However, our personalities
were more complicated. The two red-heads in the house were much slower to anger
than the two Cherokees.
My dad, Ed & my grandfather, Troy |
By blood AND example, we inherit from our people both positive (peace
seeking, good natured) and negative (worrisome, combative) traits and pass
those down by blood AND example. Hopefully,
we have positive traits (kindness, faith, generosity) given to us by our
earthly fathers and pass those down, hoping to give our people much more than
eye and hair color.
Despite our blood line and traits from our earthly fathers, we
have the same Abba Father,
So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful
slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own
children. Now we call him, “Abba, Father.”
Romans 8:15
and as we grow, our eyes open to traits, good and bad, passed down
by blood or learned from our people, and we see our Father and strive to be
more like him.
If you had really known me, you would know who
my Father is. From now on, you do know him and have seen him!” John 14:7
Troy and Sue |
Whether our blood type is A, B, O or Cherokee, Irish, or Scottish,
our Abba Father walked this earth showing us how to live and gives us His traits (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control)
to pass to our people.
Happy Father's Day,
Katy
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